I’ve been active in the lifestyle for a little over 5 years now, and been a “dabbler” for over 20 years.  I am submissive and am married to a wonderful woman who I am lucky enough to call my wife and Mistress.    Together we have transformed our garage into a fully equipped dungeon.  I have very many fetishes, which I go into more on my interests page. 

There are two main reasons I decided to create a blog.  The first is that I want to be more active in the community and meet people with similar interests.  The other reason is that I’ve often found myself looking at images and wondering, “What is that piece of equipment?” or, “Where can I get that?”.  Since we have a pretty large collection of gear and toys, it seemed like a good idea to discuss our life and adventures, while actually providing some information on what was used, how it worked, and if I’d recommend it. 

Please remember that I am just a participant in the lifestyle and am in no way trying to portray myself as an expert.  Any information you see on here is strictly my opinion.  If you go on to use any information I’ve provided to make a purchase or create a scene I am in no way responsible for the products themselves or your safety while using them.  We are in a lifestyle that can be dangerous if the right precautions are not taken, so please play safe.  

I would also love to hear of any experiences others have had, whether it be with a piece of equipment I’ve reviewed, a suggestion for an item you’d like me to review, or anything else you’d like to share.  If you do write me, please be sure to note whether I can use the information you provide on the page.  It is always helpful to others if I can share more than just my own experiences, but I am always respectful of the privacy of others.

If you are a craftsperson, and would like me to try a toy you’ve created, please contact me and I’m sure we can work something out.  The only warning I have about that is please don’t be offended if your item does not fall within my interests.  I only review things that I would like to use.

I hope you enjoy some of the site and am open to all feedback.  Thanks for stopping by, and if you like what you see tell your friends to take a look.

BDGuy